The Not-to-do List


 Do you have a not-to-do list?

Having a not-to-do list is more important than a to-do list. In fact, this works as the premise for all your to-do lists and helps you build relevant and efficient to-do lists. You need to build a framework that caters to your peace of mind and definition of success.

Here's my list.
  1. Ask permission
  2. Seek validation
  3. Follow templates
  4. Please everyone
  5. Fear change
Build your not-to-do list.

Create the right conditions for your personal and professional success.

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